Sometimes I
feel like taking nirvana.. Nah! Don’t be so happy, I only think of it and I
make sure I get rid of the thought ASAP! ;) But the big reason I feel this, is
because of the rat race! We fight like rats to get over the top. That is okay.
But when someone gets there, we get hurt only because we couldn’t make it there.
Hello? What do you get when you get jealous of others eh? What? You are burning
yourself! As if you are committing suicide. The person getting there isn’t
responsible for the situation, you are!
No. Not
because you couldn’t make it there. Luck matters. You weren’t bad. He was
better. But you are wrong the moment you feel humiliated with other’s success..
Clap for it! Enjoy it rather. You will always feel better. Your loss wasn’t
when you lost, it was when you thought you have lost! If you think you didn’t
win, yes you right. But if you think you have lost, you are right again. Only
because you’ve lost the spirit of sportsmanship!
I’ve heard
there are coaching centers where they train you to get to the door step of
success. (I’ve got no idea if they are successful or not. And don’t ask for any
contact numbers. I disregard such stuff :P) But they aren’t so necessary.
People get there some way somehow. By pulling someone else down; bribe; the
“bhagwan, baba ka aashirwaad”; or by simply working hard. People use different
ways to get there. Some stay there too. But what we really need to do, is open
up coaching centers to guide people through when they don’t make it there.
No. Not
again so that they get on to the path of success. Hypnotism, psychiatrists,
counselors are doing a great job with that. We need centers to actually coach
them to not get jealous with what others have got. It’s okay if someone else has won. It took something different to get there,
maybe they had it. But you need to appreciate it.
For ex, MS
Dhoni( not just because he’s ma favorite player and all that). Poor guy(do not
take the literal meaning), makes it to the play offs. Call it luck or fixing.
Accept that he made it there. He did tremendously well in the qualifiers. Made
it to the finals. So? Jealous? He got there. Clap champ! Point out no loop
holes unless you’ve got the proof that it was fixed. No. A big No!
Same way,
stop the blame game. We, Indians, have got the habit. We are more interested in
what our neighbors are doing when our house has already caught fire! And mind
you I see it every day. Every single day. And I always smile at their
mentality. The least amount of time god must have spent on these people to
design their mentality. Education, status, money- the world’s biggest traders
also can’t trade mentality. God should spend ample amount of time on your
mentality and not on your brain. Someone is less intelligent, it’s okay. He’ll
earn his bread. Do his bit for the society. And leave this world. He would
neither harm nor improve the society. Because he has the mentality, but poor
thing can’t put the mentality to practice the good things because he hasn’t got
the brains. People with brains and good mentality both(this combo is super
precious.. God spends most of his time on it) improve the society. Try to
uplift the society by helping the less intelligent people. But they can’t do
anything for the next 2 categories. One is with wrong mentality and poor
brains. And the other is wrong mentality and awesome brains. (Rich [black money
richness not the white one J] human beings [read as entities] and politicians{lemme
mention: NOT ALL: they might file a case against me. ‘sansad ka apmaan and
stuff’} add value to this one because they are a part of it.)
Logically,
coaching centers can’t help anybody. :P because mentality is god gifted. If
you’ve got intelligence. Nice. If you’ve got good mentality. Salute. But if you’ve
got a combo, *RESPECT*.
So, next
time when you lose, remember to keep a check on what you are thinking about the
person winning. And tick the category you belong to. It’ll be a secret though, but
you’ll know the minima you can get. J
Keep up the
check game. Success will be all yours!
Hoping that
this will change your mentality.
Toodles
amis! J
Good night J
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