Love vs Hate

"You need power to do something bad, for everything else love is the only weapon", Someone said. ( I didn't  make an effort to google out who really did.) Doesn't really matter. Trust me, love is for those who can absorb it and not for those who just  let it flow over them and not absorb. I have heard people saying, "It hurts when one is not loved back". I say, "It hurts when your love is not valued." 

Doesn't really matter what kind of love. Love of friends, love of parents, love of pets, love of partner.. Everything is unique in it self.. The best example of how love not being valued hurts is, love of parents. I won't really complain if you don't value someone who wasn't in your life for all the past years, but I won't really entertain if you haven't valued your parents'  love enough. (exceptions exist). And I don't think I should explain you why and how. ( Since you've chosen to read through, I assume you are smart enough :P )

On occasions, I see people being loved by pets more than by people around. Maybe that signifies how more are we getting away from the people around rather than how well we are getting attached to the pets. It's not really bad, but something beyond, worries me. Again, exceptions exist but majority doesn't really make the minority visible. ( for obvious reasons)

If you ask me, there's nothing bad in hating people. But you should know why you hate them. And some day some how if you notice that the reason for your hatred has vanished, you should be mature enough to curb your hatred. ( If you can't, you'll be the reason for someone else's hatred. ;) ). People change, and it's upon us, to choose to notice or not. 

I don't think anyone lives for hatred. ( though some profs and teachers were made to absorb all the hatred in the world. So in a way, they leave little scope for hatred for others. Same applies to the Indian politicians. They all do their bit of social work ;) )We all live for love, but some have the art to really get it. And if my sarcasm doesn't hurt you, some have the art of being hated.  ( If you think, I taunted you, then yes you were :P :D )

If someone thinks that by spreading love they can live like a saint, I think I should remind you that saints are the ones who first keep love out of themselves and then the hatred. So, by spreading love, you are not a saint. ( Doesn't mean I am spreading hatred. If I was a cartoonist, I was supposed to be behind bars by now. :P ;) )

The best thing about people who are hated is that, they think that the world is wrong. I have seen something like this:- "If you are are hated by too many number of people, you are getting on to the path of success". But my friend, Kasab is hated by all of us, so you mean he did good? For me, it doesn't really matter if someone hates me, I can do little to make someone love me or hate me. But I can surely find the reason for hatred, and if it's fair enough, I promise I will change.:)

My philosophical approach might doze you off through the post, but if you can get to the minutest details, you'll find a lot of truth in the words than just typing off words. And if you have got a philosophical approach, I don't promise that you'll live longer, but I promise you'll live happier. :)

Toodles Amis

With love and laughter

Swarada